Pregnancy Loss

Dealing with a miscarriage can be devastating. While many may pass off a miscarriage as a pregnancy that "just wasn't meant to be", these words rarely help to relieve your grief. Although a miscarriage can be an isolating experience, it doesn't have to be. Women who are or who have previously dealt with a miscarriage are often a great resource to those currently suffering from a pregnancy loss. Share your words with us and share your support with other women.

It is best to avoid using stimulants during pregnancy. Amphetamines and dextroamphetamines are powerful drugs and when taken during pregnancy, they can cause miscarriage, early labor or birth defects. You may want to ask other women if they have had personal experience with this.


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Loss


I lost my baby. technically it hadnt even got past a mass of cells (6 weeks) but with female intuition I'd none from the start i was pregnant. I had just got married and I was over the moon, we both were. On the 6th week my husband couldnt take it anymore and he told everyone, he's wanted a baby for a long time now.

I'd bled everyday, some said that spotting was normal, some looked at me with pity. One doctor didnt even bother giving me a due date, the next said not to worry as there was no pain with the bleeding - 'it must be a boy because of the jip he's giving you!' she said.

I cried minute and thanked god the next that I was actually pregnant. It seemed all my dreams were coming true. And nothing ever comes easily did it. I ignored the dragging feeling I'd started getting and started buying baby clothes.

One week later we went to hospital and they said that nothing was there, that i had lost it a few days earlier and that it had come out naturally. I walked out the hospital without speaking to anyone.

The grief I experienced for a baby that I never met, never even saw on a scan, was the most painful thing - I cant describe it. I felt I'd failed. I felt how unfair it was that there were young mothers outside the hospital puffing away before going back to the maternity ward.

we're trying again now so fingers crossed...

Liv






Our Little Angel

My husband and I were expecting our 3rd child in April of 2009. We were so excited because it takes us quite long to get pregnant (2 years, 1 1/2 years and 10 months). I went for my first ultrasound at 20 weeks and everything looked normal to me. My two little girls waved to the baby and to my surprise, the baby waved back. I went home so excited that things seemed to be going good. The next day our doctor called me and wanted to see me right away. I went in and he informed my husband and I that our baby's brain did not develop properly and that our baby was basically dying inside me. There was no real chance of life after birth. It was the worst thing ever. I cried for days and days at a time then I would stop for a couple days and then cry some more. A week later we went in for a D&E and after coming to, the first sound I heard was a baby crying in the next room. My heart was breaking and there was nothing noone could do or say that would stop it. It's been 3 1/2 weeks since my D&E and I have moments where I don't even want to leave my bedroom and then I think of my two other kids and I carry on for them. I seem to get more panic attacks now and I can laugh but then I feel guilty for it. My kids don't really understand. The 6 year old knows that the baby was sick and went up to heaven but the 3 year old still asks if she's going to be a big sister and I have to tell her "No not this time honey but hopefully soon you will be." I know time will heal and I know that our little angel is looking down on us. I want to start trying right away but was told that we should wait a little while for me to heal emotionally and physically. I just so want to be pregnant again.

Stacy






miscarriage

I have two misscarriages in my life after one misscarriage i got pregant again and i have beatuiful baby girl then after one year i got pregant again and i face miscarriage of 3 months pregancy.Totally i have two miscarriage in my four year marriage life.Now with the grace of ALLAH i am pregant again and hoping for best.

farwa






MY FIRST BABY

my name is UK and i am 33years old pregnant for the first time with my baby : 3 months and 1 week. it was the happiest experience of my life and my husband when was extremely excited. on june 8 2008, i woke up at about 6am to go to the bathroom and i noticed that i was all soaked. i thought that i had peed on myself in my dream and ashamed to wake up my husband to tell him. i quitely got up, went to the bathroom, had a shower, changed and went back to bed. it wasn't even 5minutes after i laid down that i felt a bad cramp and i also heard a sound like a big gas passed thru my stomach and came rushing down in the form of blood. i woke my husband up, called my mom who tell told me that the water was from my baby and that we should calmly go to the ER and she will meet us there. The hospital wasted so much time attending to me that i almost bled to death and we later found out that i did actually lose my baby, my first baby. It hurts like hell, i wanted to die but my family and friends conforted me and i was happy to have such a supportive system. We are still trying and it has been 6months now and still nothing.

uk






miscarriage

i had the hardest time with my loss :'( my husband was the greatest support to me. me i was 3 1/2 months pregnanet my baby had even kicked me i felt it i was so hard on me i was expecting her with open arms i cried and cried. my question was why me why my baby why her but then i realized that every thing happens for a reason and shes in a better place. BUT NO MATTER WHAT I STILL MISS HER AND SOMETIMES I CRY REMEBER. AND I AM PREGNANAT AND SO SCARED IT CAN HAPPEN AGAIN . :'( BUT IM HOPPING I CAN HUGG THIS BABY LOVE HER OR HIM IM JUST HOPPING I CAN BE THE BEST MOM I CAN BE and that my pregnancy gose all the way and i get my bundle of JOY :)

yomaira







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