Dealing with a miscarriage can be devastating. While many may pass off a miscarriage as a pregnancy that "just wasn't meant to be", these words rarely help to relieve your grief. Although a miscarriage can be an isolating experience, it doesn't have to be. Women who are or who have previously dealt with a miscarriage are often a great resource to those currently suffering from a pregnancy loss. Share your words with us and share your support with other women.
Lost Baby Girl :(
My name is Brittany , i am now 17 ......my story begins back in 2009 when i was dating a guy for a year ........i thought he was my everything so i gave him what he wanted and lost my viginity at 14 ........it was late on saturday night when we decided we wouild have sex ...(we were only together 4 months) he said he had protection on so i went on with it ......4 weeks later my period was late i told him he was scared but excited at the same time so i went and took the test and it came back positive i told him and his family i then told my dad whom i lived with atm he wasnt happy and kicked me out so i went to live with my bf .......we brought the cot, clothes, nappies, bottle, everything we had it all we were all set for the baby .......... i was 22 weeks and i went to find out the sex of the baby i had a feeling it wold be a girl.................................and it was my little baby girl was growing healthy and strong inside me i was the happiest girl alive .......... we picked a name Izabella Ann Maree :) we were so happy until.................my bf came home one night and was angry after he had a dispute with one of his close friends and he decided to take it out on me ......we got into a big argument he called me a slut so i called the relationship off and went to leave with everything and said "u will never see ur daughter so dnt bother trying " and walked out he then came behind me and pushed me then i fell onto the cement and instantly got pains Izabella was kicking so hard i thought she was going to kick her way out ....................i then began bleeding and rushed to the hospital ................3 hours later i found out my baby girl Izabella Ann Maree was sent to heaven to be with my grandfather :( i broke up with my bf and lost all contact with him i got a restraining order against him and his family and i am now 17 and think about what my life would be like today if i had my baby girl with me .........i am now happy living life ......and spending as much time with my friends and family cause u never know when u will be pregnant so please girls i dnt regret Izabella but i do wish i would have waited i am reminded everyday of my baby girl by my stretch marks :) R.I.P Izabelle Ann-Maree <3 Mummy Misses you very much :)
misfortunatewhen Iwas in high school, I've got a boyfriend named Matthew. we love each other much, till we had a sex. I felt so afraid to what i just did but, i cannot bring the past back.
After a month, I've been pregnant. I was shocked> I dont know what to do I tell it to matthew, but he ignored me, he broke me up and said he cant take it. at that moment I was scared. my emotions were mixed. then i felt like something was flowing on my legs......BLOOD! my mom took me to the doctor but it was too late.. so misfortunate
unborn angelwhen i was 15 i met a guy . he was sweet, loving, became my world. after two months of dating i got pregnant through a careless mistake. when i told him he had mixed emotions but not for one second thought of leaving my side. we began thinking of names, planning what we would do , how we would tell our parents, we got really into it. i wanted a babay boy. we weregoing to name him jason skye. I dreamed about him alot, and i still o now. 7.5 weeks into my pregnancy i had a miscarrage. i was beyond devestated. i"d lost my baby. and after a while i lost myself. consumed in depression ,and alone, with no one but my boyfriend i crumbled, and he left after a while. he is now dating my friend, and is happy. i on the other hand am broken ,and alone. i dream of my baby boy most nights ,and cry alot, one day i"ll be able to pull myself together,...i hope :(
Not meant to be...During the first two weeks of October my boyfriend and I found out that I was pregnant. He had just turned 20 and I was about to be 18. Having only been together for four months, it scared us. The pregnancy was a huge surprise, mostly because he has been going through Chemo (yea he's got cancer). We didnt tell anyone but our closest friends.
I started to get a belly after just a few weeks (I am a stick, so a couple pounds is really noticeable). Reality hit and I was grateful that I had experiance with infants and kids in general (I worked at a pre school).
We started to get used to the idea of being parents, excited even. I was two months when I started cramping. A few days later I was bleeding. At first I thought nothing of it cause lots of women have a light period while being pregnant. But the bleeding got heavier. I let my boyfriend know and later that week I went to the clinic with my mother (We still hadnt told her).
They didnt ask if I was or possibly could be pregnant. And I wasnt about to tell them with my mom sitting right there. I let the doctor know that I was Sexually Active. Right away they asked me for a sample to test. She came back into the room and said,"Well good is thats negative."
I fought so hard to keep my composure. I try not to cry when im alone. I knoe it was for the best but I cant stop thinking about it. Why couldnt I stay pregnant?? Would I ever have kids?? Was there somthing wrong with me??
My boyfriend and I are six months strong. He is so supportive and even wants to try again after I graduate in June. Thiss experiance taught me a lot and idk when we'll have kids or even if i'll have kids with him but I do know that I Want to be a Mother and hopefully one day, when the time is right, it'll happen.
I LOST MY SON IN TRANSITMy Hubby and i were expecting our third child,as usual every thing was normal until the day i rushed to hospital after seeing blood to me it was normal because i was already in labor, we rushed to hospital and thank God we reached safely but in the first 15mins while i was in the hands of the midwives, they examined the heart and there was no pulse, i was then rushed to the scan and it was just confirmation that that baby had died. They helped me break the membranes and in with a short time i was at 9cms so i pushed a dead baby........they told me it was the umbrical cord which tied my baby to the extent of being cut off from oxygen. Maureen Kyeswa
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