Dealing with a miscarriage can be devastating. While many may pass off a miscarriage as a pregnancy that "just wasn't meant to be", these words rarely help to relieve your grief. Although a miscarriage can be an isolating experience, it doesn't have to be. Women who are or who have previously dealt with a miscarriage are often a great resource to those currently suffering from a pregnancy loss. Share your words with us and share your support with other women.
I was normal until now
I had no problems with my first two children and was proud to say when going to the doctor with my third pregnancy that I had two pregnancys and two babys! I did not fear losing this baby and was completely excited to be pregnant. At 6 weeks along we had a boy and girl name picked out and we were going to be buying the babys crib soon! At 7 weeks I woke up completely covered in blood and was scared to death. The doctor told me what to watch out for and to just take it easy because I was having a miscarriage. That is all they told me though! Thank God for computers and this website. I am happy to say that we will be trying again as soon as I have my first period!!! I never realized that miscarriage was so common and that considering this is only one and I have had two healthy babies before that I will never have to go through this again hopefully!
made to carry a my dead daughteri was about 5 months pregnant and went to the hospital for discharge and the mid wife and nurse tried to hear the heartbeat and couldnt noing that she waas gonna send me home she told me it was there i just couldnt hear it i told her i wasnt leaving till i heard the heart beat she told the nurse give her an ultra sound to give her a piece of mine then found out the baby was dead. the whole time since i was 13 weeks they then sent me home with her in me told me to follow up with a doctor cause they were gonna have to do a dnc cause i couldnt pass her no one would see me right away i was heart broken i had to csrry her around with me then finally about a week latta i seen a doctor he gave me two pills and schedualed my dnc he told me to take it the night befor the surgery keep in mind i have no insurance or money any way i tock the pills an hour latta they baby came out of me while i was sleeping she was hanging there from the cord i called 911 when i got to the same hospital they let the baby stay hanging out of me like that for about 3-4 hours the pesanta still never came out they finally cliped the cord and removed the baby then finally called the doc in 730am to do a dnc to remove the baby then when i went back to the room a lady came in and said she was there to take pictures of my new baby i cried and still cry today because the lawyers tell me they didnt do nothing wrong NO MOTHER SHOULD HAVE TO GO THROUGH ANY OF THAT THEY SHOULD OF REMOVED IT WHEN THEY FOUND OUT THEY SHOULD OF NEVER SENT ME HOME IS WAS HARD ANUFF NOING I LOST THE BABY
MY LOVE JUANFERhello my name is erika of Mexico, DF the 14 of April of 2008 we lost son of 36 weeks of gestation was so loved and deceado that still I cannot think that hido in the morning is had everything was well its registries and everything but for afternoon already habia left to us went to the sky, was difficult to happen through the work of childbirth because hiba not to have my prize after the effort, but God wanted therefore it and I am thankful to him that it has allowed me to feel son from very small, to juanfer from the sky bendicenos and damages strength we loved to you drinks
miscarriagei didnt plan a pregnancy, but yet i felt different, my breasts were aching and i couldnt stop eating, and i couldnt stop eating galaxy chocolate bars either. i kept telling my partner that i thought i might be pregnant and he kept avoiding the subject, so anyway when my period didnt come obviously my fears were confirmed and i was pregnant. I kept trying to find the right time to tell my partner, but i was very quiet and moody, so he kept having a go at me, so i couldnt tell him. Anyway i told him eventually and he wasnt impressed, i cried A LOT and he just stayed quiet which men tend to do, anyway the pregnancy ended up being a little unwanted, i definately know that my partner didnt want it, but deep down i did want it, my head told me it wasnt the right time, and i know myself it wasnt the right time, but i think we could of make it work, anyway after about 2 weeks of some serious thinking, i started to bleed, i rang the hospital and they said there were no scan facilities cause it was a bank holiday, so i had to stay at home all weekend bleeding and in pain with nobody to help me, my partner bottles things up a lot, so he wasnt very supportive, i have went for a scan the week after and they confirmed that i had miscarried, and now my partner keeps shouting at me and snapping, which i am finding really hard to deal with at the moment, i know that its cause he feels guilty, he feels guilty cause he didnt want it, but he is reacting in the wrong way, i was very emotional at the time and still am as it has only been last week, i just find myself feeling very lonely, and all i want is for my partner to be supportive and talk to me, but as i said before he is expressing himself by bottling it up, which makes him snap at me, every night since i found out i was pregnant he has stressed at me in some way for no good reason. i dont know how i am suposed to deal with it.
miscarriegeOn the 17th April 08 I went to my doctor as i did a pregnancy test and it was positive and I missed period. My dr felt my stomach and said that i felt 3 months. I was happy. Then on the 3rd of May i had pink show so i rang my dr and she told me not to worry and rest. Of course i worried so went hospital they said all was fine so i went home. next morning had another show and went bk to hospital and they said i was fine. the next morning I had another show but i just stayed in bed. Later that evening i started to get cramps and bleed heavy with clots so i went hospital and i miscarried. We were very upset but my partner does not talk about it. I think it is because he knows it has affected me alot and doesnt want to upset me. It is very hard for me because i wanted this baby very very much. I feel empty and very sad but the doctor said my next pregnancy would be fine. I hope so but i do tend to worry now.
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