Dealing with a miscarriage can be devastating. While many may pass off a miscarriage as a pregnancy that "just wasn't meant to be", these words rarely help to relieve your grief. Although a miscarriage can be an isolating experience, it doesn't have to be. Women who are or who have previously dealt with a miscarriage are often a great resource to those currently suffering from a pregnancy loss. Share your words with us and share your support with other women.
still born loss
After finding out I was pregnant I so excited 2 days later I started to spot.. then I went to my obg and he told me it my cervic was still open so he put me on complete bed rest also I was having alot of pregnant sickness I lost abot 20 pounds in 2 months...after turning 12 weeks I was so excited I was not spoting any more and I was able to feed my baby at 20 weeks I ask my doctor if I could catch a plane for a family event and he said yeah it would be no risk he said every is okay...so i decided to go to florida (i think that was my worst mistake I have mad in my life) when I got to florida that same day I was in the hospital having vaginal bleeding the doctor there told me my cervic had open a little and he recommedend bed rest so that's what I did...then I was so scared I had to take a plane back home and I did. my doctor also said it was okay to do so when I got home I had to be rushed to the hospital and they did an ultrasound to make sure the baby was okay and they also told me is was a baby boy me and my fiance was so excited we where going to have a baby boy and he looked very big and healthy in the untrasoud he moved a lot....then the nurse tells me don;t moved I have to call someone to come get you and put you in a room you going to be stayin I thinking it was that serious until I got to the room and I seen everything ready for me to deliver when I got to the room I started yelling and screamin no no no my baby to little to come to this world he not going to make it and the nurse yes I know its hard OMG I started yelling more and I could believe this was happening to me 2 hrs later after crying and crying the nurse said that they might be able to help me carry the baby for a couple more weeks so the baby could make it then I was a little happy that there was a HOPE! I was already 10 cn dilated so they put something to help me carry for a couple more weeks they keep me in the hospital for a couple days and the same day they send me home at night my water broke I was then 22 weeks when I gave birth to my baby boy Ikeem on 3-10-08 he only survived for an hour this been a very hard thing to have to go thru..its hard for me to also see women pregnant and new borns I feel very unhappy and very lonely... especially now that I don't have him with me nor I feel him in my stomach moving I have had a lot of family support but people that never had a pregnancy loss would really know how its feels..my heart goes to all the mothers that have had loss there angels and just have faith god and our angels will always be with us.
was carring twinsi was pregnant. i told my partner and we were over the moon. 3 weeks later i started bleeding and had pain. they rushed me to the hospital. i was in even more pain in the hospital and they had to give me maufeen as pain relief. I went for in ternal scan and they said there was one half babies there and that i was bleeding from inside my womb and that from my last miscarriage there was peices there that's what caused this miscarriage. so do me a favor: if u have a miscarriage make sure u have a dnc so it won't happen in ur next pregnancy ok
Coping with MiscarrigeI miscarried 10 days ago hence why I am writing this.
I had started getting spoting around 11 weeks, nothing heavy and to be honest, I wasn't that worried about it as I have a son who is now 3 and had a bit spotting with him. Anyway, went for scan at 12 weeks and she said baby looked fine, however, the nuchal fluid measured more than 3mm and anything over that was a concern. I decided on having an amnio to find out if there was an abnormality with the baby. I worried right up until this date. When we got taking for the test, the scan before it showed there was no heartbeat. My baby had died. I was in shock. Even though I had been worrying I just wasn't prepared for this. We got taking into that room where you pray you don't have to go and we cried. I had to take the tablet. I went back to the hospital 2 days later to deliver my baby and it was the saddest thing in my whole life I have ever had to do. I have been told I will be invited back to the hosp for the results of the PM arounds 6 wks time and I just hope to god it was nothing I have done or could have prevented...and I pray I can go on and have more babies, I am so worried if I try again this will happen as from what I have been reading on line, lots of women miscarry more than once. Thanks for reading folks x
unknown pregnancyMy story!!!
I didn't even know that I was pregnant, I had been having female problems and went to a gynocogist to get checked out.. The doctor had told me that it was cycst around my ovaries and my layer around uterus was thin like if my ovaries were functioning fine, but she said that they were not, she went ahead and put me on three different types of medication. About two weeks later I began to have abdominal pain servere, I phoned her and she asked me to come in. She then changed my medication and said that I should be fine. A couple of days later I became dilusional and forgetful, I had even forgot to pick up my two older kids from school and would forget where I would be drivng too. My vision started becoming blurry unable to function right.. So my husband thought that maybe I was just stressed, and took me and the kids to a hotel with a slide built in for a small vacation, during our stay i really became dilusional and began bleeding, we decided to cut it short and come home. I then called the gynocologist and she said that she would call in some pain med for me and that the bleeding was normal.. Ok I said then on the following day I became weak and pale and was loosing tons of blood that a friend that came over to visit said there is something seriously wrong with you let me take you to the emergency room, but i kept telling her no lets go to my gynocologist finally i just passed out and she went ahead and took me to the E.R. I then was told that I was having a tubal miscarriage... I was three months along. I just dont know how to overcome this since my husband and I had been trying for so long to have a baby, I just can't seem to stop crying and pulling myself together for my two older children that need me...My husband seems to be dealing with this so much better than me. We did name him Nicolas T. I just miss him so much. I can not deal with this i feel so alone...Thank you for listening to my story..
My first bornHello all....................my heart goes out to you all. In March of 2008 I delivered my first child.......he was stillborn. I was devestated and thought I was having a nightmare. I went to the hospital because I thought my water had broken. When we arrived we were put on the monitor and the nurse could not find my son's heartbeat. The minute the monitor was put on my stomach I knew something was wrong because it soumded so empty inside my tummy. It was confirmed on two ultrasound machines that my son had died in the womb. We could not believe that this had happened to us, we did everything right and we were going to be that best parents.......or so we thought. When he was born there was a blood clot in the cord so close to his stomach that I was sure it had come from him and not my plecenta. The autopsy confirmed that it had come from him and had he been born alive he would have passed shortly after that. We got to hold him and say our goodbyes and he was perfect.....I miss him dearly. I told my fiance that I want to give our son a sibling sooner than later. I feel I owe that to my sonso that as he is watching down on us he knows that we will be okay and I want nothing more than to feel life inside my stomach again. Having another child is not replacing him but it is a piece of mind for us to know that what had happened was a fluke thing that happens in 1 of 200 pregnancies. Our son deserves a sibling!!!! We love and miss you so much " Scoot Scoot"!!!!
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