Dealing with a miscarriage can be devastating. While many may pass off a miscarriage as a pregnancy that "just wasn't meant to be", these words rarely help to relieve your grief. Although a miscarriage can be an isolating experience, it doesn't have to be. Women who are or who have previously dealt with a miscarriage are often a great resource to those currently suffering from a pregnancy loss. Share your words with us and share your support with other women.
misscarriage twice in 4 months
hi my name is danielle, i am 17 yrs old. i found out in february that i was 5 wks pregnant. at 6 wks i started bleeding heavily and had bad pains. it felt like i was having a period but even worse pains. i knew this wasn't right and knew something was up so my mother inn law and partner took me to the hospital. there i did a scan which showed me the baby inside but it was to small to notice. there wasn't any heartbeat but i was to early in my pregnancy. so i was booked in for the following wed to try and find the heartbeat. on that following wednesday I had another scan but we coudn't find anything so i did a test. it come back negative so i knew i misscarried. i knew i was still young and had the rest of my life to look forward to. but i still felt upset. i decided to book myself for the rod implant to be put in to prevent getting pregnant again. 2 months after the rod was put in i had another misscarriage. this was very unexpected. i new it was a misscarriage because it was big clots and also the sack from inside me. i took this sack to the walking center and did a pregnancy test and it said positive. so in the past 4 months i have had 2 misscarriages .
blighted OvumI found out i was pregnant sometime in January because i missed my period. It was the happiest day of my life. This was my second pregnancy. I have a 3 and a half year old son from a previous marraige. This was my second child with my new husband. My pregnancy was pretty good for the most part. I did experience a few yeast infections but i guess thats normal. I had some brown discharge i thought it was from the yeast infection so my doctor advised that i go to the hospital to get it checked out. They defintly told me i was bleeding and ordered a ultrasound and i was about 14 weeks at this time. They explained to me that i had a empty sack with no visible pole or yolk. I was a bit confused. I didn't know what happened to the baby it never had happened to me before. I do understand more now about it. It was a hard month for me in march. My mom died on march 21st, I had a misscarraige on march 23rd and had a D&C done on march 26th and i am trying to concieve again. It's been almost 5 weeks now. I have questions for anyone that has been through what i went through? How long after miscarring should i have a period? because it's been 5 weeks now and i don't want to get my hopes up about being pregnant. I hope that i am. Also what are my chances of getting pregnant after a miscarraige? Any answers will be helpful. thank you and god bless everyone. thank you for hearing my story.
sad and lonelyI found out i was pregnant about three weeks ago at first i was a little shocked because my relationship with the father who was my ex-fiance had ended the week before and i was still in shock from that, then this.
I was very excited because i believe every pregnancy is a blessing no matter what the circumstances. For a week i was having brownish discharge which the doctor said was pretty normal, then on sunday i began to have more of a brownish spotting. This lasted a day when i couldn't take it anymore and i called the doctor they said to come in.
I hadn't had my first visit yet cuz i was only 6 1/2weeks. The dr. did a blood test and a pap telling me everything looked normal and i just had some old blood in there. Not even a half an hour after the appt. i started bleeding red blood and two hours later huge clots came out. i went to the emergency room where they did an internal ultrasound and they told me i had indeed had a miscarriage.
I am completely devastated. i went from one major loss to another and am feeling more alone than ever. I just want the symptoms to stop so i can stop being reminded of losing my baby! Also, im sick of hearing maybe it was for the best given my situation. Quite frankly that just upsets me more when they say that!
My friend is pregnant and we were due a week apart and i kinda feel like a bad friend because although im happy for her it is just hard to talk to her about it when it just reminds me i am no longer pregnant we were supposed to get big together.
If anyone has advice on coping with this i could sure use it right now! Please
Please Don't Give Up! I have had 15 MiscarriagesHello and God Bless You All. I know of the Pain that You are going through.
I my self have had 15 miscarriages, (Yes 15) and I know your Pain. I have had every painful test that you can imagine with still No Baby. I have had tubal surgery losing my left tube in the process. I am getting very desperate because of my age (36) I know that my Faith in God is the only thing that keeps me going. He knows what is right for me and when He is ready it will happen.
Sometimes I just want to scream!!!! to make the pain of Loss go away. Please don't give up as I have not. I will keep trying until they have to remove everything.
May God be with you and Comfort you all in your time of Sorrow.
my storyI am 30 yr old happily married mother of 3.In Feb. 08 my husband I decided we wanted to try for our 4th baby. April 3rd I took ahpt and the 2nd line was so light that over the next few days I took 4 more. All were positive.
Unlike my other pregnancies I didn't want to tell anyone I was pregnant until I went to the doc. On April 8, 2008 I woke to bright red blood and clots. Since I didn't have a dr yet I went to the ER. I was diagnosed with a threatened miscarraige and my hcg levels were at 14.
Thursday went back my levels dropped to 6. I was diagnosed with an inevitable miscarriage. Friday finally saw my ob/gyn and she confirmed the miscarriage had occured on the 8th. She reassured me that nothing i did caused this.
She recommended that my hubby and I wait 3 cycles before trying again.
I'm sad for the loss but I'm eager to try again.
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