Dealing with a miscarriage can be devastating. While many may pass off a miscarriage as a pregnancy that "just wasn't meant to be", these words rarely help to relieve your grief. Although a miscarriage can be an isolating experience, it doesn't have to be. Women who are or who have previously dealt with a miscarriage are often a great resource to those currently suffering from a pregnancy loss. Share your words with us and share your support with other women.
can't get pregnant again
a couple of years ago i had an dnc and i have'nt been able to get pregnant since. now i just keep thinking somethings wrong with me. well i only have one tube left cause when i was 18 i had a ectopic pregnancy and they removed one tube
my little Qmy husband and i just got married in february 2006. he has 2 daughtes of a previous marriage, one which lives with us. In march of 2006 we decided he would have a vasectomy reversal because I would like to be a mommy in the future.
we didnt plan to get pregnant too soon but in august 2006 i ended up in the ER with a real bad stomach flu were i was told i was pregnant. My husband and I were extremly happy.1 week later I went for my first dr. visit were i was told i was 9 weeks.
I had some trouble for a couple of days with mild vaginal bleeding. I saw my dr again and she had an ultrasound done I saw my baby for the first time like a little tiny jelly bean. Everything was perfect with my little Q. We decided to name it with daddys first initial.
On 13 weeks 6 days we go for our next OB visit baby is in perfect condition and again we get to see little Q. I fell in love more and more with my baby. On November 3, 2006 we go for ournext OB visit at this point our baby should be about 14weeks 6days. Well Dr is unable to find any heart beat he does an ultrasound and finds that the baby stopped growing at week 14. He orders a D&C for that same evening. I couldnt understand why i didnt get any sign of my baby dying. i loved my little one so so much without even getting to hold it in my arms, I didnt know what to do but Cry and Pray. I was devestated my happiness and my little ones life had been cut short. Prayer has been a real support for me. "Blessed be...the Father of tender mercies and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our tribulation." 2Corinthians 1:3,4.
My husband, Friends And family have been a real Physical Support and Jehovah God has been a very strong spiritual support. i look foward to the day i will see my baby again in a perfect paradise on earth. And I pray to God to let me be a mommy in the near future.
young and heartbrokenI'm 16 and just suffered through a miscarrage. I was very horrificly raped by my sister's boyfriend when i was twelve and he severly damaged my uterus by kicking me multible times. Now four years later i got pregnet and me and the childs father were very excited, scared but excited. I was in the sixth week and was just starting to get that adorible lil bulge when i had a complete miscarrige. I know that people reading this will be like "she's so young what an idiot" i know im young i never planned to be pregnet but thats what happened so i wanted to deal with it. I love kids and can handle them very well. I loved my baby. I never knew them but they were inside of me. I will always have a little angel in heaven. I miss my baby so much. i know that sounds weird but thats the only way i can word it. That baby was a part of me. All i know is that my sister's boyfriend took more then my virginity and innocents, he stole my baby aswell. I don't know why im posting this, ive never told anyone but i need to get it out. I hope some how my story can help someone else deal with their pain.
moving oni had been throwing up all day and decided to phone my partner at work to see if he was ok thought maybe the romantic meal he had made the night before was a bit dodgy it wasnt until he said he was fine and joked that maybe i was pregnant that it dawned on me maybe i was. we already have a daughter 5 and a son 10 months.i began to worry as both me and my partner work and we hadnt really wanted any more kids especially because my son was so young.
so i waited till he came home and told him i needed to get a bit of shopping asked him to wait in the car bought my test without him knowing. we arrived back at the house i went upstairs done the test and sure enough it was postive. u could say i was worried about telling him but he shocked me as he was really happy. me myself i was still worried but was coming round to the idea.
i went to my doctors on the thursday he told me i was about 10 11 weeks which was a shock by now i was really started to get excited. we decided to tell people because i was so far on. everyone was really pleased for us and we had started making plans and talking about what we wanted. my daughter wanted a girl because she thinks boys are rotten and my partner wanted a boy because thats probably what all men want. i didnt really mind i already had one of each.
then saturday came i was being sick all day and had started to spot so i got out of work early. i just told my partner i wasnt feelin wel never mentioned anything about the bleeding because had that in my previous pregnancys and it worked out ok. it wasnt till about 12 that night it started coming really heavy and i was in alot of pain that i decided to wake him and tell him the look on his face ill never forget. i lay their for another 2 hours in agony and then decided to go to a&e by myself
probably my worst decision ever as i had no one for support. when they told me i was having a miscarriage i just wanted my partner there with me. i broke my heart and the doctors just made me feel like it was nothing. so i then had to make the phone call home to tell him what had happened. it took me an hour to do it. i was told that rest would come away naturally. but was given tablets as i had an infection which probably caused the miscarriage.
at home i climbed into bed with my partner and both of us cried. the next day we had to tell people which broke both our hearts. we are now 1 week on and i have stopped bleeding and i am trying hard to move on but i dont think me or him will ever forget it. this is our second miscarriage together but i think we just have to look ahead and be grateful for what we do have. 2 healthy lovely children and brilliant relationship thats built on love and trust and this is the reason i feel i can move on.
my thoughts are with everyone who is going through this.
lisa mc court
Baby LossI found out today that i had a baby loss , i was devastated , i cant even remember anything, all i remember was me bleeding and in pain, then suddenly my husband called the doctor and ask if he could come around, then the doctor said " i am sorry miss you have lost your baby" and i started Ballinng my eyes out , and i still cant stop it only happend 2 hours agao i am lying in bed with my laptop thinking what should i do next try for another one? or adopt? Please someone tell me.
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