Dealing with a miscarriage can be devastating. While many may pass off a miscarriage as a pregnancy that "just wasn't meant to be", these words rarely help to relieve your grief. Although a miscarriage can be an isolating experience, it doesn't have to be. Women who are or who have previously dealt with a miscarriage are often a great resource to those currently suffering from a pregnancy loss. Share your words with us and share your support with other women.
I was 38yrs old and have 3 children. On 19 april my Dr confirm I pregnant 5 1/2 wks . I was so happy that time and start imagining the little one cause my third child is 7yrs old already and I am hopping for any kid.
nfortunately on Friday I start having spotting in the morning then again in the evening. So I go and see my GYN and he prescribe me medicine and advise bed rest, but it's still bleed and more bleeding.
Then on Saturday I go to the toilet and some tissue and the bleed become less and less.
On Wednesday I see my GYN and my GYN said that my pregnancy is not healthy and take blood test to comfirm whether I had a misscarriage or not.
Here come Thursday what I have been worry come true. My GYN comfirm that I really had a misscarriage and I have to go for D & C. The D & C is painful and my heart also feels sad that I lost my precious baby. I try to hide my sorrow from people around me and started to cry and cry and tears keep on dropping and dropping, now I really understand how the feeling of losing your baby in a misscarriage.
I try to console my self and belife that Allah love my baby that is why he taking from me , I pray may Allah forgive me for whatever thing I do wrong.
16 Years LaterI am 42 and have two wonderful children ages 19 and 15. Both of them are truly blessings in my life.
Eight years ago, I remarried. After two years, me and my husband started trying to conceive. We started infertility and found out my husband had a condition that might require surgery to help us to conceive. However, we moved to a different state, and never restarted infertilty treatment; we thought we'd leave it in God's hands.
So, after almost eight years of marriage, I found myself pregnant for a third time at 42 years old. Me and my husband were so excited...it was his first child and I was proud to be carrying it for him! However, four days after my positive pregnancy test, I went to the bathroom and saw blood. I was shocked; this had never happened with my other two pregnancies. So, my husband took me to the Emergency Room and when I got there, I was bleeding heavily, passing clots and tissue. I started crying then and I still am!
The doctors ran blood work to get an initial HCG level and I have to go back tommorrow to see if it is lower. They did an ultrasound and an internal scan and found nothing in my uterus except a small mass in my uterus by the cervix. I was approximately 5 weeks along.
The doctor continued on to tell me that there is a small mass in my ovary (probably a cyst) and that they can't rule out an Ectopic Pregnancy just yet. That is why I have the HCG levels being checked tommorrow to see if it is going down due to miscarriage or if it is still rising due to an Ectopic Pregnancy.
I'm really hoping now that I miscarried; the baby is gone either way and removing the baby from the fallopian tube can lower my chances of conceiving again.
Tonight at home, I cry off and on. I never realized how traumatizing this is for a woman and my heart goes out to all who have lost their child through miscarriage. I never realized the grief you feel even so early on in pregancy or later on when you loose them.
Please take care and with God's help, I hope everyone will get through this and if you desire a future pregnancy that those wishes will come true.
11 and 1/2 weeks LaterI had a complicated pregnancy when I was 10 and 1/2 weeks. They just said that mother nature didn't take its course, that it was nothing I could have done different. I had the DNC a week later.
It was a really horrible ordeal, after surgery I bled for 48 days straight with gushing blood of clots and clunks. My doctor thought she would have to do another DNC surgery. Turned out it was was a blood vessel that wasn't healed and was sending blood into the lining of my uterus. I believe I am all healed now but after 11 weeks, I haven't seen a period so I'm not sure if all that bleeding all those days wasn't a cycle and I just maybe didn't know it.
I cry all the time b/c I can't get over it. I feel so sad and it just was a horrible time. I was so scared that I would never be able to get pregnant again. We will defintely try again in the coming months but I hope I never have to go thru that again and I bless every single lady out there that had to experience that loss.
It is very difficult but one day GOD will send us that angel to bless our family forever. Thanks for listening!
probably miscarriageTo start off, I am lucky. I have two healthy boys ages 3 & 1 at home. We were shocked and suprised to find out we were pregnant with a third. I took a test about 2 weeks ago & found out. My husband and I were thrilled, and my 3-year-old had already been talking about the baby growing in mommy's belly.
I started light pinkish-brown spotting yesterday, but no cramps. Today, I have moderate to heavy bleeding, bright red with some very mild cramps. I did pass three purplish colored pieces of tissue about the size of quarter each. I am scheduled for an ultrasound Monday, but I have already prepared myself for the worst. It doesn't look good for me.
This will be my first miscarriage, and now I know how so many women have felt who have experienced a loss so early on. I am about 6 weeks. It is a loss, and you do grieve, but I am so grateful for my two blessings I already have.
My heart and prayers go out to everyone who is experiencing this type of loss. May God surround you with his comfort during your time of pain.
MY LAST CHANCEJUST CAME FROM THE HOSPITAL FEELING LIKE IT IS THE END OF THE WORLD, WHY DO I FEEL THAT WAY? WELL; I AM 44 AND I WANTED THIS BABY BADLY BUT LOST IT AT 7 WEEKS.
IT WAS A TERRIBLE MIND GAME. EVERYTHING SO CONFUSING. I HAD HEAVY BLEEDING FOR 5 DAYS, HORMONE LEVELS WERE CRAZY SUNDAY 849 MONDAY 743 TUESDAY 756 THURSDAY 960.
DOCTOR ORDERED ULTRASOUND AND FOUND A BABY EXCEPT THAT IT IS FIVE WEEKS. I WAS SOOO HAPPY. THEY SAID IT LOOKS GOOD AND NORMAL. GUESSING THE POSSIBILITY OF TWINS AND ONE OF THEM DIDN'T MAKE IT.
THE DOCTOR ASKED ME TO GO BACK FOR A 48 HOUR HORMONE TEST. HERE WE GO AGAIN. TODAY WAS THE DAY RESULTS 280!!!!!!!!!!!!! I AM UPSET. YES VERY UPSET. WE AND THE KIDS WERE SO HAPPY ABOUT THE NEW BABY. JUST BEFORE I TOOK OFF TO THE HOSPITAL THEY ASKED ME WERE I WAS GOING TO, AND I TOLD THEM TO THE HOSPITAL. MY 5 YEAR OLD REPLIED ARE YOU GOING TO BRING THE BABY HOME?!!!!
AND HERE I AM NOT KNOWING HOW TO TELL THEM THERE WILL BE NO BABY. AND ASKING MYSELF SHOULD WE TRY AGAIN. IS IT SAFE FOR ME AND BABY? IT REALLY REALLY HURTS.
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