Dealing with a miscarriage can be devastating. While many may pass off a miscarriage as a pregnancy that "just wasn't meant to be", these words rarely help to relieve your grief. Although a miscarriage can be an isolating experience, it doesn't have to be. Women who are or who have previously dealt with a miscarriage are often a great resource to those currently suffering from a pregnancy loss. Share your words with us and share your support with other women.
baby angle marie my first baby and my first loss
im 21 years old i found out i was pregnant when i had went to the doctors on 8-12-10 because i havent been feeling well when the doctor told me i was pregnant i was sooo shocked bt sooo happy and also scared how was i supposed to tell my famliy and to mention it was my mother birthday and i had to tell her because she had went to the doctors will me but to my surprise she was happy she even said that was the best birthday persent any one can give her she was going to a grandma for the first time and i was going to be a mom for the first time but my happiness so truned in worry when the doctor told me that he is worried about the baby because i was spottin a little bit and he told the thinks that i might be having an ectopic pregnancy or that i could jts be miscarring so he sent me to the hospital so that i could have an u/s done and some blood work
on my way to the hospital i called me boyfriend so that he could meet me there i still had to tell him the news about being pregnant when he got there i was crying because i was scared then i told him he was shocked and yet happy but he also started crying because of what the doctor had said he was worried after that i had to get blood work done and i also had to get two u/s done the nurse told me she couldnt see the baby so she said that i was early in my pregnancy she estimated that i was about 2 to 3 weeks going by my last period after being in the ER for six hours i got my blood result it came out to be normal me and the baby were ok bt that i had to return to get blood test in 48 hours and then they sent me home telling me i had start my pernatal vitamins the next day...
then next two days were so scary for my because i noticed i started to bleed more so i got worried so i just stayed in bed the whole time till i had to get my blood test again.saturday came along went to hospital got the test done and i would know my results on monday morning when i go see my doctor also that day it was my mom and grandpa bday party and as everyone was getting things ready i just stayin laying down till i had to get ready i had went to the bath room where i noticed that i had tiny little blood clots i remember looking at it crying asking god to please just let me stop bleeding let my baby be ok(it wasnt till later that day then i found out that it was my baby that i had jts lost).bt later that day i had called my boyfriend telling him that i had a feeling that i should go to the hospital because i knew something was wrong so we decided that we go to the party for about an hour and just leave and go to the hospial around 8 at night we left as i got there got a room and waited till someone came in and check me seem like for ever i had my boyfriend and my cousin with me there im remember saying that i hope everything ok so that on monday i could find out when im due after about 10 min later two nurses came and checked asked my boyfriend and cousin to step out of the room till there where done as she was getting ready to look at me she asked me if i was bleeding alot and how many times have i change my pad i told her about twice that day i had to changed it and thats when she said that i had miscarried because my hCG test had went really down it was half of what it was two days ago.i started crying so bad when my boyfriend came back to the room i didnt even had to tell him he already knew by the way i was crying that i lost our baby we held each other crying so hard i kept sayin that i wasnt fare i really wanted to have my baby everyone was looking so forword of me being a mother this pain i was feelin was like no other.
its been 10 days since i lost my baby every moment of every day i cant stop thinking of the loss of my baby it hurts so bad i go to sleep thinking about her( i like to think that she was guna be a girl)i dream about her and wake up thinking about her.that day i lost my baby i lost a big part of me too but i know my little girl is in a better place me and my boyfriend even decided to name her we picked the name Angel Marie Lopez because she is an angel in heaven now.My prayers go to all who have and going thru the pain of losing a baby its the hardest thing to got thru and im so sorry for loss.... but even as im hurting really bad right now i know that one day god with bless me with a baby and that angel marie will have baby brother or sister one day and i know he is taken good care of my little angel.
An Angel Baby Girl In HeavenWhen I first found out I was pregnant I was so Happy and thrilled Because I always wanted a baby. I told my family and they were so excited for me. I needed for something to go right in my life after having a very hard time living with a very complicated problem. I told my boyfriend that I was pregnant and he was very happy but then as time went by he got very angry he didn't want a baby and he didn't want me anymore. I found out that I was having a baby girl and I was so thrilled I wanted a daughter so badly I named Her Gracie Evelyn. I was about 5 1/2 mths pregnant and I saw Her father and he got very angry that I didn't have an abortion and he punched me in the stomach. It instantly Killed my Baby Girl. I remember having the D&C done and crying all the way there and all the way back. I cried for a month straight. I cant get over the fact that she is not her with me.Its only been about 2 1/2 mths now and I am still not dealing with it well. But I have a Beautiful Baby Girl Named Gracie Evelyn In Heaven Watching Over Me. Mommy Loves You Baby Girl<3
Losing our boysWe found out in April of '10 that we were pregnant. We were not really even trying. So this was a total surprise. Honestly, it was a BIG surprise as I couldn't get pregnant in my first marriage. We had a ultrasound at 7 weeks and were able to see the baby's heartbeat. Everything was fine! Then we had some bleeding, they sent us to the emergency room and we thought for sure we had lost our baby. They did a blood test only and said that our hormone level was fine, so to see our doctor the next day. Well, we did and they did an ultrasound to see what caused the bleeding. We were having twins! So now, we went from having a baby, to losing that baby, and now we were having twins! Great news. Things were going ok. We made our 20 week appointment and were very excited to find out the gender of the twins. The doctors said everything was going well. In my 19th week, I had this major pressure in my stomach. I could barely walk at times. I saw the doctor, he said it was "growing pains". Ok, I can deal with that. Then the next day after the appointment I started to spot. They told me some bleeding could happen. So, two days after the appointment-I was bleeding heavier and still had that pressure. My back hurt. I called the doctors office and the nurse said I needed to go straight to the hospital to see if I was going into pre term labor. I went to use the bathroom before we left and my water broke! We rushed to the hospital. They admitted us right away to the labor and delivery area. They started me on IV antiobotics right away and after a couple of hours the doctor finally saw me. He confirmed my water had broke and the cervix was hourglassed. Most likely suspected a incompetent cervix, but there was nothing we could do at this point. He said active labor could start at anytime. Because we were at 20 weeks, there was nothing that we could do to stop it and our twins would likely not survive. They were very concerned about infection to me since my water had broke. They kept me in the hospital to see when labor would begin. If we made it to Monday (it was Saturday), we would see a specialist to see if he has anything to add. We did make it to Monday and the specialist agreed that there was nothing to be done. In fact, we were having boys (we knew it all along!) and that one of the babies had moved down (his cord was coming out) and it was a matter of time for the other baby's water to rupture and for him to come down. He suggested that we induce labor to avoid infection to me. The longer we waited, the more likely we were to get a serious infection which would hurt our chances of any future pregnancies. The baby and the cord were in a position that put me at a very vulnerable place for infection. After the input of 3 doctors, we decided to induce. Our boys were born the next day (August 10, 2010). We named them Bryce and Brody. They never took a breath when they were born. We were able to bless them and spend the night and next morning with them. I was released the next day. After I had delivered the boys, they took me into surgery to do a D&C as the placenta was heavily attached. Two weeks later, I miss the boys like crazy. They are my angels now. They are burried next to my niece and I will never forget them. I am being treated with antiobotics right now as we suspect that not all of the placenta had been cleaned out. The cramping and bleeding is off and on two weeks later, some days are good, some days are brutal. I am anxious to get better, healthy and try to give our adopted daughter and our boys-who are now angels-a brother or sister. This whole experience is very surreal. I have cried each day since the day my water broke. I now ask why me, what did I do wrong, and what could I have done differently? I always wonder what would have happened if I went to the hospital one day sooner than I did. My husband reminds me there is nothing we could have done. God has a plan, although I might not get a choice in this plan-I have to go along with it. I pray to God for a healthy and normal pregnancy with the next one. I pray there is a next one!
lost an angelon june 16 i called into work because i didnt feel well. i was 34 weeks. i went to the dr and she put me on bed rest. diagnosed me with preeclampsia and hypertension. gave me a prescription and told me to take it easy. babys heartbeat was fine. i did wht she said. first baby, i trusted her. the next morning i awoke with really bad cramping. went back to the dr office. she checked me and baby and said everything was fine go home take it easy. i did. friday i was fine sat i was fine. sunday i woke with bad cramping and diarreah. i knew something was wrong. started bleeding bright red blood and rushed to the er.the dr told me that the fetus was not pliable and there was nothing he could do. i had to have a c section because i was bleeding so much but not dialated. i had a placenta abruption. my sons name is gabriel. he was beautiful and healthy and i would give anything to have him here with me. everytime i think im ok i realize that im not. i know that god is with me and i rely on my faith to cope but its hard. i want another baby but am terrified. i never got to hear him cry or look in his eyes but i know we will meet again. gabriel mommy loves you and im sorry for what happened. i know in my heart that i gave birth to a true angel and u werent meant to be with me right now. i look forward to holding again sweetie. i love you
miscarriagehad my fibroid removed, after six months i got pregnant, had a scan, fetus had no heart beat for 4 months, at sixth month, i lost the pregnancy by natural complete abortion.fifth month later i got pregnant, loss the pregnancy as soon as i knew i was pregnant. that was four weeks, when i missed my period and had a home pregnancy test with clear blue strips
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