Dealing with a miscarriage can be devastating. While many may pass off a miscarriage as a pregnancy that "just wasn't meant to be", these words rarely help to relieve your grief. Although a miscarriage can be an isolating experience, it doesn't have to be. Women who are or who have previously dealt with a miscarriage are often a great resource to those currently suffering from a pregnancy loss. Share your words with us and share your support with other women.
Hi my name is summer, and here is my story. i had been best friends with this boy named vic i mean he was my best friend. all my friends was pushing and pushing me to loose my virginity well eventually i did. to vic.. about a month after i found out i was pregnant. im 13 ill be 14 in feb. i know im younge. when i was ten weeks and two days i woke up cramping really bad and bleeding so i went to the dr and had a miscarriage. i know i was not ready to be a mom but it still hurt, bad. having a miscarriage is the worst.
First loss !I was 14 when i got pregnant but it was only 3 months till i knew the baby died , i was so upset cause i never thought it would happen but it did .. The baby's father was 16 but were not together . Now im single , into this really great guy , ! but im not having sex till im married i got this promise ring from my dad . But now my dad Passed & my mom did too ! wish me luck .
mommys baby angeli found on may 8 2011 (mothers day) that i was expecting and i was so happy it was all i wanted ,i went to the drs and found out how far along i was and found i was a month and a half i was soo happy. i went through everything i needed too to take care of myself and the baby i was carrying i was an emotional wreck due to the father telling me to have an abortion and he left and was just absolutly horrible but i did my best to stay happy for my baby i was six months and found out i was having a boy! i was happy my baby had a name finally it was kristopher v kinser .
i remember when i turned 8 months it was halloween. i had taken time off work cause i was sick and who called me but the father of my son and yelled at me that i should have just had the abortion and i was so hurt that he would even think that, a week later i was back at work it was nov 7 and i went to the bathroom where i was bleeding slightly which was brown in color and i asked my mother what it was she said it looks like your mucus plug, which was ok and i went about my work ,my manager made me clean wheels with degreaser that night and i was so angry at her for that. i went home that night and was perfectly fine i went to sleep and woke up at 8am to take my nephew to school and watch my baby niece i called my mom and sister to come over and "hang out". my back started to hurt extremely bad and i could feel my son moving around so much i told my mother and she said hes moving in position to be born . after my mom left my back started to hurt even more i was scared so i called my older sister that i was living with and she said it sounded like i was going in labor i was super scared at this point my sister rushed home called my mom who came over to take me to the hospital where i had the worst expierence ever .
first they give my older sister who is pregnant as well a wheelchair to wheel me in instead of comming out themselves i went up to the third floor and they were rude telling me to be quiet and calm down they finally got the ultrasound tech in thier who was doin the ultrasound and when i asked how my baby was they said the baby is fine about two hours later my regular dr cameinside and told my sister that my son had passed away and when she told me i thought she was lying i really wanted to hit her ,..i was shocked i was lost for words i didnt cry at first i was just in so much disbelief that my son was gone they made me go thru the delivery process 17 hours i was in labor ..... i had delivered my son on nov 9 2011 at 6:23 am he was 3lbs 3 oz and 15 in long i was 33 weeks and 3 days pregnant
i was due christmas eve i member the last move he made and the pain of having to set up a funeral and going through that whole ordeal and it was so horrible. i remember telling the father that my baby passed away and he came up to the hospital to make sure he was "GONE" i never wanted to see him again he didnt come to the funeral its going on a year now and im still soo devastated that my son never even had a chance i know hes in a better place but you never expect your kids to go before you do,
i love you kristopher always ,your mommys baby angel rip kvk nov 9 2011
Opening UpI have tried and tried to forgive myself for the loss of my baby. Something inside of me told me I was pregnant, but I didn't want to believe it. I wasn't ready but as I thought more and more about it, the more excited I had become.. I was ready to go through the stages, have the glow, cravings and all. One day, as I was out shopping with my mom, we decided to have lunch. I had gotten up to go to the restroom and I felt this huge urge to use the restroom. As I used the restroom it felt as though something was being suctioned from inside of me. I was worried. Not sure if I was actually pregnant, I figured it must have been a rough period. As I left the restroom, pain surged through my side and it became very difficult to walk. Not wanting to worry my mother, I continued to walk and disguise my pain as best I could. I drove back to my apartment in deep pain trying to still hide the pain and soon it was gone. When I arrived, I told my boyfriend I wouldn't be able to make it to his game and went to the restroom. As I stood up, I glanced down and seen a small circular object at the bottom. I scooped it out, and realized there was a head, eyes, and portion of a body in side of the sack. Immediately I was in shock. I researched online what miscarriages looked like and confirmed I just had one. I still really can't get over it. I haven't fully came around to being the same me. Everyday is a blur and I feel guilty. I just pray the lord will forgive me and help me throughout this journey and bless me with a child one day.
To young to go trew thisSummer vacation was going down the hill me and my boyfriend were not acting the same. So I broke it off I wanted too fix things ASAP but it got worst. I spend the night at his house . A month later I found out I was pregnant then school started the first day was worst I fainted. I met a social worker at the nurse. So I told her what happen 3 days later I told my mom that I was pregnant. She treated me like crap. The baby dad and me were arguing more than ever. I was stress more than ever. I found out I was 8 weeks. He didnt wanted to tell his parents so I told his mom. Couple days pass and I became depressed. On Friday me and him got into a huge Argument that left me Furious and crying my eyes out. I cryed to my mom in the car. As when I got home I saw red drops but I ignore it. I went to my cousins football game to see them perform in band and I had pain that I never felt before. I checked the Internet and they said I'll be fine. So Ignore it and went home and straight to bed. On the morning I felt a lot of blood coming out and blood clots so my mom took me too the hospital. Time pass by the baby's dad was there too. They took out blood and he was supporting alot then they did a ultrasound but didn't see anything. I was worried. Waiting in the hospital room the nurse came in and told me there was no baby in there. I cryed my eyes out I was do hurt and heartbroken. The baby's dad told me he was gonna be here to get me tru it. But that was a lie. Days later I became depressed,and didn't know how to get tru it. The baby's dad didn't wanna go trew it anymore so I told him that I wish him the best and too take care. Since then we haven't talked. Not a day goes by that I think about my baby and him. I'm 17 and didn't deserve to go tru it. It really hurts.Â
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