Dealing with a miscarriage can be devastating. While many may pass off a miscarriage as a pregnancy that "just wasn't meant to be", these words rarely help to relieve your grief. Although a miscarriage can be an isolating experience, it doesn't have to be. Women who are or who have previously dealt with a miscarriage are often a great resource to those currently suffering from a pregnancy loss. Share your words with us and share your support with other women.
my baby is gone
hi my name is Robin i'm 14 years old i hAD A MISCARRIAGE on 12/17/08 i was scared,sad,going insane..But i guess my baby wasn't meant to be here and i didn't know if it was a boy or girl i just wish GOD would give me a chance to be there for my baby but it was he's chose to take the baby..and i think my boyfriend is gonna leave me soon..so i'm gonna have to live with this by myself..i can't stand this pain..i cry almost every night i know i'm to yough but i would love to have my baby but i'm gonna wait til i'm married..
the lord blessed me after a miscarriage and a tubithe first time i found out i was pregnant, i was excited. 6 weeks i had a miscarriage. then a year later i was pregnant again. she is four now. well two years ago, i was pregnant again. before i even made it to my doctor apt. i found myself in the er. doctor said i had a miscarriage. they even done a dnc on me. well 2 weeks later i was at work and started cramping so bad. at the er again, the baby was in my tube, so they did emergency surgery and remove my right tube. i ahd 2 surgery in two weeks. i had so many problems after that. well i decided to not take my birth control cause i really wanted another baby. so when we was not even thinking about a baby, i found i'm pregnant. the first thought i was scared i didnt want to lose another baby. but the lod is good, i pray and trust the lord. i'm 3 months right now. so dont ever give up hope, i really thought i was never havin another baby. trust the in the lord
still birthi was 28 weeks preg and me and my husband were happy we were having a baby boy cuz he had a girl but after going to the doctor to get check up the doctor could noot find a heat beat on baby so we got send to the hosptal to get a ultsould done still could not find the heart beat and after they got a dotor to come in and tell us that our baby boy has pass away i knew something was wrong now its today we got a report back and they could not find anything why he had pass away
my babyme and my husband found out i was pregnant on nov. 24,2008 and we had been trying 6 months so we were happy as can be i was crying tears of joy that whole day my husband said he was so excited that his heart was fixing to beat out of his chest so i went out to my doctor that day and told them i had a positive pregnancy test so they did a test and it said positive so that made us even more happy because it was confirmed by the doctor so she made me an appointment with the obgyn and i saw my doctor at the UT hospital they were really helpful to me through this whole thing and really acted like they cared and i had my first ultrasound on wednesday dec. 3 and everything looked great like a normal pregnancy but there was no baby to be seen i started crying so hard cause i have wanted a baby my whole life and then i didnt see it on ultrasound my doctor told me that i was either starting a miscarriage or i was just earlier than i thought and we just couldnt see it yet but i knew something was wrong but i was praying and hoping that it wasnt i have never prayed for something so much in my whole life my husband was trying to comfort me but nothing seemed to be helping me at this point on thursday dec. 4 i woke up and i had started spotting so i called my husband and told him to come get me right away and take me to the hospital so i called my doctor and told them what was going on and said i would be up there in a few and when they had done some blood work on me my HCG levels were all off they were not increasing liuke they should they were increasing very slowly so they said that didint look good at all they sent me home to wait and see what was goin on cause they did some more blood work and i set and held a recieving blanket that i had bought that i wanted to bring our little baby home in and i cried on it all day long just praying that everything would be okay that night i started bleeding more and i went to the emergency room and they told me i had started miscarrying the baby and told me to go home that i would pass everything in a few days they said since i was just about 6 weeks that it would be like a heavy period and i would probly pass everything naturally so i did but it has been and emotinional rollercoaster for me and my husband we are going to be getting a nursery ready and start trying again in 6 months i named the baby Halen Rye i love my baby with all my heart ,emerald age 19
Dying InsideA few years ago when I was only 17 I found out I was pregnant. I was scared but happy at the same time. My boyfriend of a few years was very supportive. My family was equally supportive. I had gone to the Dr. a few times and everythign was fine. I had an ultrasound and couldnt really see anything but the heartbeat. Then one morning I woke up and didnt feel "right" in my head I thought I was in pain even though I didnt feel any. When I went to the bathroom there was a tiny lil blood clot and I freaked out. I was 13 weeks pregnant. My mother called my Dr. and he fit me in that day. When I got there they tried to find the heartbeat but couldnt so They had me get an ultrasound. I was laying there looking at the screen and all you could see was a baby not moving. He/ She appeared to be sitting indian style with their little head slumped over and the nurses said there was a "halo" above the baby's head. I still dont know what was wrong with taht baby or why he/she didnt make it. I was devastated crying uncontrollably, The Dr. asked me what I wanted to do he said I could either pass the baby at home or he could remove it surgically. I told him get it out as I couldnt bear the thought of carrying a deceased baby inside me. He tells me Ill have to wait 7 days before he could schedule me an appt. This is after I missed 2 appts with him before because he was delivering babies but he couldnt fit me in to perform a 30 min D&C. 2 days later on my moms birthday I woke up to a wet bed and I went to the hospital. They had me in a bed for over 6 hours I was passing large amounts of tissue and blood some of the tissue got caught in my cervix and I almost bled to death. The Dr. pulled out a large piece of almost skin colored tissue and placed it in a jar of liquid and sat the jar on a tray next to my head and left the room. All i could think about was how that was apart of my baby. After laying there in pain for hours feeling like I was in labor they finally transferred me to another hospital to do the D&C. I was so scared that I would die but I made it. It was the most traumatic thing to ever happen to me. It took me years to get over it. To not cry at the thought of what I had been through. I wondered If I could even have children I never was told why that baby didnt make just that 1 in 4 pregnancies ends in a miscarriage. But Iam here to let anyone else who may have gone through this to know that just becuse you lose one doesnt mean you cant have another. Its been 6 years since I went through this and as of right now Iam 34 weeks pregnant with a little girl. I have to admit that this whole experience has been a bit stressful since I kept wondering in the early stages if this baby would make it. My fears wont completely go away until I hold her for the first time. Iam confident that I will do so. So anyone out there never give up hope. You never know what life has in store for you.
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