Single Moms
It's not easy being a single mom. As a single parent, you have to take on double the parenting duty. Other issues can make this even more complex. For example, some young moms write about what to do if my boyfriend is an alcoholic. Please share your experience and wisdom. As you will see, these problems require a great support system, time management skills and top-notch parenting techniques. If you have tips to share with other single moms or just want to help other single mothers and single parents out there, then tell us your story. |
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missing daddyOK SO I AM 16 AN WILL BE 17 THIS MTH WILL BE ABOUT 1 MTH PREGNANT SOON.. I AM REALLY STRESSED AND DNT KNO WHAT TO DO BEKUZ I CANT FIND MY BABYS DADDY I KNO WHO HE IS ITS JUS WE LOST CONTACT... I AM SUPER STRESSED N I WISH HE WOULD CALL ME BECAUSE I DNT KNO WHAT TO DO SINCE IT WAS HIS IDEA IN THE FIRST PLACE TO ATTEMPT TO GET ME PREGNANT ....... : ( desiyah One Night StandHi my name is Brandie and i need help right now.I dont know if im pregnant or not.Well it all started out with me and my cousin goin to a friends house and hanging out with some friends.She was there with her botfriend and i was there bcuz i was bored.My cousin and her boyfriend went to a different room.Well i was stuck there with a guy i kinda new.Well one thing lead to another and i ended up in bed with him and he didnt have a condom and he said he was about to come well i felt him about to do it and he wasnt going to pull ot so i pulled out for him.And afterwards he said did u feel me fixin to come and i said yea so i pulled it out for you.And i asked him why he didnt oull out and he said he didnt know and started laughin and i asked him why and he just smiled and kissed me.So im not sure if i pulled away from him early enough bcuz when i pulled it out i felt his cum like between my legs.I just dont know what to do right now bcuz im only 15 years old turnin 16.My cousin is 18 years old and she got pregnant and her parents were pissed and i live with them and a whole lot of stuff happened then.So if anyone is out there please help me.Brandie I need Answershey i am 18 weeks pregnant i want to know if i had sex on february 24 with my boyfriend is it possible that he could be my baby father? i am between two situations right now and i dont know who is my baby father because it was kind off a one night stand and i dont know what to do i am very scared and i want to kow some answers before my baby enters this world in december!!Valsha My LiTtLe AnGeLHI MY NAME IS VANESSA AND I AM A PROUD MOMMY OF THE CUTIEST 1YEAR OLD BABY BOY EVER! =) WELL MY STORY BEGINS WHEN I WAS 12 AND "IN LOVE" WELL I ACTUALLY WAS I MET THIS GUY HE IS 1 YEAR AND A HALF OLDER THEN ME.IT STARTED AS A CRUSH AND ENEDED UP FALLING FOR HIM HARD.I LOST MY VIRGINTY TO HIM AT 14 AND WE WERENT EVEN TOGETHERE I LOST IT TO HIM SO I CAN PROVE TO HIM THAT I WOULD DO ANYTHING FOR HIM ..I DONT REGRET LOSING IT TO HIM BUT THE WAY ITHAPPEND IT WASNT THE WAY ILIKED...BUT ANYWAY WE WERE ON AND OFF FOR 3 YEARS UNTIL FINALLY I TURNED 16 AND GOT PREGO AND HE WAS THERE FORME ILL GIVE HIM THAT HE WAS THE PERFECT BOYFRIEND MY MOM WAS DISSAPOINTED BUT SHE WAS THERE FORME AND STTILL IS ...MARCH 25 2007 MY BABY BOY ANGEL WAS BORN THE HAPPIEST NIGHT OF OUR LIVES BY THEE WAY MY BBY DADDYS B DAY IS MARCH 24 .... BUT N E WAY....THINGS WERE FINE UNTIL NOW ME AND MY BBY DADDYHAVE LOST RESPECT AND TRUST FOR EACHOTHER THINGS ARENT LIKE THEY USE TO =( I DIDNT GRADUATE I WANT TO MAKE SOMETHING OUT OF MY LIFE I DONT WANT TO DEPEND ON HIM BUT ITS HARD FOR ME I LIVE WIT MY MOM I HAVE NO ONE TO TAKE CARE OF MY BABY WHILE I WORK OR GO TO SCHOOL I HAVE NO MONEY FOR DAY CARE CAN ANYONE GIVE ME ANY ADVICE OF WHAT I CAN DO? IF YES PLEASE HELP ME =)vanessa Preferential TreatmentMy name is Amena and when I was barely 18 I married Amir. My parents had arranged the marriage. He was 36. Twice my age. He already had the big house and cars and the only things missing were a wife and children. This is where I come in. We married, I lost my virginity and became pregnant. Everybody was happy and wished me a son, not health and happiness, but a son. Well their wishes were in vain, I delivered a baby girl naturally after 32 hours of labor. Silent contractions as per my husbands request. At 18 I became a mother to 7 pound 2 oz. 20 inch long Leena Farah. My relatives were dissappointed but I was happy, a son would have been the entire familys son. Leena was simply mine. I took her home and began the crying fits and sleepless nights we call newborn parenting. Even though I had my husband I was the one who was expected to go get Leena when she cried at night. The first time Amir came to the doctors with me was at my 6 week checkup. The doctor told me I was good to go and that night Amir decided he wanted me pregnant again. It happened and 9 months later I had a baby boy, Jaser Amir Nasser. This time my family had a ton of celebrations and parties for Jaser. It was very tiring to go to a party when you didn't sleep the past two nights, your body had just pushed out a baby, you dressed and fed and cuddled said baby plus babys sister, you got baby taken away by relatives eager to look at him, and then you were reunited with the very same baby, although now it came back screaming looking like a purple sea creature. Repeat 10 times and you have the first two weeks of my sons life. Plus Amir kept telling me how to be a mother. When I had Leena he hadn't cared whether I breastfed or not. With Jaser I could only breastfeed him. No bottles. Amir gave me times and places to take him and he really lost intrest in our daughter. It was like she didn't exist to him now that a boy was around. Amir wanted one more son just in case and when Jaser was only 10 months and Leena was only 20 months I had another girl, Samara Amena. Amir simply ignored her and Leena and took Jaser places. It was unfair and ridiculous. At Samaras 6 week checkup everything was great. That night Amir said he wanted to try for another boy. I told him no. I left the next morning with the three kids and all of their things. And by all I do mean I packed the suitcases full with the entire contents of their drawers. I even stuck the stroller in the back of the SUV. Amir and I got divorced. I had a baby girl, Mirah Leila. Another daughter of Amirs. I am a single mother of 4 young children but I get child support and I actually got the house. I love all of my children equally. UI am engaged to a wonderful man and we are planning on two children together, either gender is fine. He loves my babies more than Amir does. Amir tried to get custody of only our son but he lost. Thank God. 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